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Dada Instead of Daddy: Elian's Excruciating Encounter with Evil Surreal by Rodolfo Acuqa
In the 1969 movie "Popi," Alan Arkin plays a Puerto Rican single parent
living with two boys in Spanish Harlem. Working three jobs just to survive,
he feels the boys slipping into what he terms a "cesspool."
Desperate for a solution, Abraham notices Washington gives exceptional
benefits to Cubans leaving their island -- in fact gives them the royal
treatment. So he concocts a scheme in which he takes his sons to Miami and
sends them out to sea, hoping that they will get picked up by a friendly boat
within a day. He's planning that they'll be seen as Cubans and adopted by
rich Anglos.
But Abraham begins to worry when, after a day, he hears no word of the boys.
He haunts the local bars, listening to TV news. Finally, consumed by guilt
over forcing his boys to sea, he tries to drown himself ... only to hear that
they've been rescued by Coast Guard, which had taken them to a local
hospital, badly dehydrated and in critical condition.
The Miami Cuban community goes wild, hailing them as heros, and gifts and offers of
adoption roll in. But the boys are unconscious, and doctors don't know if they will come out of the coma.
Now Abraham, fearing that the boys will die, and afraid that if they awoke,
they would reveal his plot, goes through a series of antics to see the boys
at the hospital.
And when they do awake, the younger boy tells the greeters that he hates his
father, because he had told them drowning at sea was better than living in
the sewer. Believing that the father was referring to Cuba and not New York,
a lady tells him that he should love his father because he wanted to save
him, that he was a great man.
In the end, the boys see Abraham. Consumed with love for their father, they
chase him and give him away. Then a Cuban official tells him that the boys
want him and not the rich life he wants for them, and that because of this,
his plan would not work.
And so they all return to New York.
For those following the circus in Miami surrounding Elian Gonzalez, the
parallels with Popi should hit close to home. Bonds exist between a father
and a son that all the rationalization and bribery in the world will not
loosen.
Despite all of the brainwashing evident in Elian's treatment, he'll
ultimately bare the hurt of the rupturing of those bonds. Once the notoriety
surrounding him has ceased and he becomes an ordinary young boy -- and his
commercial value to relatives who had never met him until his tragic
experience diminshes-- his memories of his father will increase. He'll no
longer be showered with gifts or taken to Disney World on demand.
He'll be just plain Elian. Elian without neither mother nor father.
The irony of Elian's case does not escape many Mexican Americans or other
Latinos ... or even Black Americans. Identifying with Abraham is not
difficult for them. And they recognize the preferential treatment of Cubans
entering the country without documents ... while literally thousands of
Haitians, Mexicans and other Latinos are unceremoniously deported every week,
most of them returned to economic circumstances far worse than Elian's.
When I visited Cuba this past July, the contrasts between it and my ancestral
home of Mexico were striking. Cuba is a poor country, kept that way
by
a cruel U.S. policy that panders to political fanatics who yearn for
yesteryear and dream of returning to the island to mismanage it once again.
No doubt that the economic boycott has hurt many young boys such as Elian,
who was actually one of the more fortunate there.
But fact is that I didn't see the extremes that I saw in Mexico where poor
native Americans beg and sleep in the streets of the capital. Truth is,
some Mexicans live in luxury, vacationing frequently in Cancun and
Acapulco and spending $200 a day just for a hotel room, while their
compatriots earn a minimum wage of $3.50 a day.
I saw first-hand Cuba's extraordinary medical achievements -- a lower infant
mortality than the United States, one doctor for every 250 Cubans ... and
free universal free health-care. Cuba's literacy rate is higher than the U.S.
-- students graduating from elementary school actually know how to read. And
though Cuba is poor--its automobiles often relics from the 1950's--I could
walk the streets of Habana at 4 in the morning and not get mugged.
Meanwhile, back here in the "land of the free" there's only one Latino
medical doctor for every 22,000 Latinos. Getting into medical school is
problematic without a physician for a father, or the funds to buy into a
domestic or foreign medical school.
The United States boasts of a low level of illiteracy, yet educators know
that functional illiteracy is widespread. Then there's the extremes, like
the marked difference between the quality of minority schools and those in white
neighborhoods. Witness that some 83 percent of the teachers in the West
Valley are credentialed ... while it's under half in the inner city.
Moreover, the "compassionate society" that takes the propaganda of
Cuban-American expatriates so seriously won't give health-care to those
without papers by law in California.
Then there's the irony that--while the Miami mob laments the fate of Elian if
he's returned to Cuba--Latino and African-American first-graders in
California have a better chance of going to prison than being eligible for
the University of California system. Or that a woman of any nationality,
whether rich or poor, is not as safe in any neighborhood as on the streets of
Habana. (Frankly, women aren't even safe here on college campuses, where
rapists have found a haven.)
Most sociologists say that one important predictor of future success is the
relationship between father and son. Even agents of the Immigration and
Naturalization Service concede that the relationship between Elian and his
father, Juan, is positive, and that Juan has a stable job and home in Cuba.
There is no credible evidence that Elian suffered in Cuba.
Still, the Miami cabal wants to severe Elian from Juan based on their hatred of Fidel Castro. They maintain that a paternal great uncle who did not know
Elian nor his mother before last November has more rights to Elian than his
father or grandparents.
This is not rational . . . nor is it right.
What's so disturbing is that, in this circus atmosphere, the so-called free
press has not looked into the background of Elian's Miami family (stretching
the definition of family). What gives them the right to have a superior
right to the custody of Elian than his father? Are they so much better
educated? Do they have the resources to send Elian to college? If they love
Elian so much, why parade him, wrapped in an American flag?
Hopefully, the cable stations will screen the film "Popi," so it can remind
us of the plight of the Abrahams of this country. Perhaps then more people
will appreciate the hypocrisy of politicos who weep for family values while
keeping a child from his father. Meanwhile, the Miami circus will continue, a
real-life movie without a Hollywood ending, a nightmare running excrutiating
on and on and on . . . .
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Rodolfo Acuna hchsc003@csun.edu
is a professor of
Chicana/Chicano
studies at California State University Northridge. He's the author of 13
books, including Occupied America: A History of Chicanos (2000);
Sometimes There Is No Other Side (1998); and Anything But Mexican:
Chicanos In Contemporary Los Angeles (1996). This version of this article,
editted by SeeingRed, is printed with the author=92s expressed permission.
Permission to circulate and reprint this article is freely granted only if
the Rodolfo Acuna is credited as author and www.SeeingRed.com as source.
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